I am keeping my expectations in check. But, I keep sensing she wants to do or say something to acknowledge she wants to work on the M.
So pave the way. What would it take for your wife to have a relaxed, open conversation? Place, time, events leading up to the time, picture the whole scene (use your new found "sense"). Cats will surprise you, be ready.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
