Also - where can I read more about "Loving Detachment?"
I've been reading more about it on this board. It's been hard for me to separate withdrawl, giving up, detaching etc.
Coach and GIMA are better at this than I am, but I think it's the concept of letting go of the outcome, but not really letting go of the person. (ahh yes grasshopper...:)
Not pursuing, but not going all cold and withdrawn.
I think that's the just of it.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
