Back to children. I just read something Gucci wrote, saying that RedSoxFan should push W to watch children as much as possible to put a wedge in her affair.
1. Practically, I think it may help save the marriage. 2. Morally, I believe it to be horrible to use children like that. However, if it saves the marriage in the end (which is ultimately the best end for the children), does the end justify the means.
I believe that I will be facing similiar delimmas in the future. For example, do I take the children as much as possible to be a good father and give my children the best possible life given the horrible situation, which will give her an easier path to be with OM. Or do I seek more quality time with girls (less quantity) and let her feel the pressures of what life as a single mom will be. I feel horrible for it, but I must admit this thought has crossed my mind.
I want to be the best person and father I can be. Can you guys help me out here.
