Can't call you on that advice Stuck - you are right. I just think that it comes to all of us at different times - right now I am receptive and not reactive but next week I may be different. I feel that this is the difference between Venus and Martians!
I'm glad that your sitch has become better and that you have realised that you will be fine, either outcome. That is empowering, whichever way you look at it.
At the moment, I'm prepared to try going dark for a month and then look at options. Is that timeline reasonable, too long, too short ... comments please?? Don't forget, this is a man who is ADAMANT that our M is over so I don't want to let his leash out too long.
Any other pearls of wisdowm??
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"