I hear you Cas - 'someone' who lurks in these posts may say that you are caving in on your nc technique and whilst that is harsh, are you ABSOLUTELY sure that is not what you are doing here? (sorry for pushing you but to be challenged on your thought processes is a 'positive gift' - it should make you question yourself a bit more).
No-one wants to turn things ugly, especially when you have come a long way. You just have to decide what's best for YOU and if you are more comfortable with remaining polite, then do so! It doesn't commit you to anything and I personally don't think that throwing a bit of 'grey' in the mix would hurt.
Be proud of your success over the last 8 days, be polite and then get back on the wagon! What do you think?? This has to stay ALL ABOUT YOU.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
