It is ok to reply... (actually BETTER to reply IF you reply with the correct tone and words)
Something like this...
Quote:
"Just got your email. I agree with you totally. Matter of fact I have also been doing some thinking and came to the same conclusions you have. I cancelled my ticket a few days ago. I have been debating when to tell you, but it looks like we have both been thinking the same things regarding our relationship. I didn't want you to be mad that I wasn't coming, but I agree with you in that this is the best thing for both of us......"
Short, blunt, and mysterious..... Relieved because YOU feel the exact same way he does. It isn't working....
And then leave him alone.....
Don't mention anything about is rude comments to you. Just agree with not coming and this is for the best and that you had already decided you weren't coming..
I suspect he is pursuing the OW that he was obsessed with before. You are right in that he likes to chase the unattainable or hard to get woman. I would give him that challenge in a big way...
