Yes - best plan. Take the votes, count 'em up and then do what you think is the best overall advice.

How are you going with the nc and is it different to going dark? How do you FEEL in your emotional head and heart - if you are OK to share that here ... ?

What are you doing to motivate yourself in terms of keeping you focused? I am Day 6 tomorrow and still feeling strong but think that I will struggle come day 11 or 12 ... will be good to follow your progress and see who breaks first! (Hope it's H on something more than the furniture issue)!


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09