You certainly are a sharp gal. I have a lot of respect for you. I hope you will recognize that your loyalty to your H was a positive reflection on you and who you are and he was a lying a**hole. I know that isn't what you posted about but you put yourself down! Everyone here really admires you.
Anyway, as for H, ya, I see this as a massive cop-out and even more reflective of why he was so hard to live with..."yes, I did x, y, z but it is not my fault"...but this one takes the cake! I mean "it is written in the stars"...that he has to be a jerk????
