Play House

[Yoyowife]

So my stbxh has found out about Mr. A. My cell phone is still on company plan. Yes, maybe not too smart on my part, but he is very open about being with OW. He takes her in public all the time. He called and complained about all the calls and texts I had from my "bf". I said I have lots of calls on there. He said "one is on there lots more than others". I said, "that does not mean it is a man and honestly, I don't see where it is any of your business or concern". He then proceeded to tell me that I needed to get my own cell account, that the insurance man would be getting in touch with me tomorrow about switching over policies, and that he had cancelled my business company credit card. I told him I did not see how he could cancel my company credit card since I was part owner. His reply was,"You do not draw a check from the company." I don't know all of the legalities, but I will contact my lawyer tomorrow. He also wanted to know about some money in the bank that was gone. I told him it was not gone, I had just divided it in half and opened up a new account. Half was in the joint and the other half was in the new. My lawyer had told me to do this, I did not tell him this though, I didn't want to talk to him any longer than I had to.

I was so furious when I got off of phone, I was crying. My DD21 walked into my room and said,"Mom, don't let him get to you." I said,"I swear he makes it so easy to hate him sometimes". She replied,"It's okay, I don't like him most of the time."

She then proceeded to tell me that Friday at work that her dad had grilled her about my phone calls and wanted to know if it was a man. She said she told him she did not know. He asked if I had introduced her to anyone, she told him no, which is true, I have not. He then told her that money was missing from the bank and to be sure she didn't let me use her key to the office. DD21 said,"Mom would not do anything like that." To which he replied,"You never know." I cannot believe he put our daughter in this uncomfortable position. She said it made her very upset he was talking about me like that.

About 10 minutes later. STBXH called back and said "one more thing I want to tell you,your daughter told me it was a man." (Both daughters are his too, so don't know why he put it that way)I said, "I don't see where it is any of your business."

I suspected that maybe he called and bullied youngest DD at college and found out. I talked to her later and she had not talked to him. So it sounds as if he was bluffing me and I fell for it. I told him he had been cheating on me for three years so why was he so worried about who I talked to.

He is unbelieveable. He cheats with this woman for three years. Takes her in public all the time. He either spends the night with her or she with their children present. He has the nerve to do all of this to me because of calls and texts.