Something that I would love to be able to say to H, if I were not DB'ing like a mad woman would be:
"You know, I accept that we have both had issues in our M and are equally at fault in our separation. Since then, I have done so much research and reading and I believe that I have found the monumental answer that you spoke of! I have learned how we can put right our wrongs, learn to speak each other's love language, get back on track and finally fall back in love and build a successful M - together forever. This does not have to be the end for us - even though you may feel that way right now. Is this something that we can talk about".
If I could get that over to him, I think that I will know in my heart that I could never have done any more than my best to let him know that all is not lost.
How do I do that - and especially now that I have to wait until I go back in to the light??
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
