newgal- H left 9 months ago. I believe that he was extremely distracted by one or more other women.

My H is asking me to go to a movie with him or a play...just the two of us but I tried the doormat approach (dating occasionally, listening, validating, having sex) for months and I finally said no more.

Where my head is? I have accepted that divorce is imminent. I am clear that I need to move on...but, I am still heartbroken for my kids and have the tiniest window open to H.