No, she never told me A SINGLE TIME how she liked sex -- in fact, she and I are having this debate online even as we speak. Here's her most recent e-mail on the subject: Quote: I think your bedroom comment is unfair...The ONE TIME I expressed those wants and desires to you....
I didn't listen to her. I did the usual ADD thing of listening without "hearing" -- that's true. And she absolutely felt abandoned, by Item #3.
She never told you a "single time" but she is currently referring to the "one time" she expressed her desires. And wow, the "usual ADD thing of listening without 'hearing'"...that was very much my sitch with H...communicating my needs was an exasperating experience and in the bedroom, bordering on humiliating...I just made that connection and remembered how alienated I felt.
But more importantly- holy cow, how'd you get derailed into a convo about this with her now???
