I'm in a similar sitch GIMA. H showing signs of coming closer - I'm sensing it too - but still trying so hard to be patient while we retreat to separate rooms - when H is here - or apartments when H isn't.

It's like watching a flower grow. You can't see the growth minute by mintue, even day by day. But you care for it anyway. You don't stop watering because it doesn't look any taller than the day before. You diligently care for it through the months. But one day, what was a seed you planted in the earth is a tall plant with beautiful flowers blooming.

Here's to big beautiful blooming flowers in your future!


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship