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Did your W also take down all of your photos?


Yep. All wedding pic's and any pic's of me. All we have up now are pic's of the kids or her and the kids. Like I was never part of the picture (no pun intended).


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It's going to become a heck of alot harder going forward before it gets better.


I think you're right. But, no matter what she eventually decides, I think your statement would hold true. Our W's are in such a fog and are so confused that trying to keep up with them would be just too much. Again, why detachment is so important.

It really sounds like you are getting the detachment thing.

The way I see it, if the worst happens, I'm still young, getting physically fitter by the day/workout, and I would be a great catch for some lucky woman. It's not my first choice, but it could be fun and could lead to happiness I have not know before. And, he!!, I'll get to play a lot of golf and get in a lot of fishing between those two chapters of my life (and afterwards).


Me 43, S11, D7
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