he was back, i think

[lost-n-Iowa]

I agree with your atty too about just going on with your business and if daddy wants to finally call and see son then try to be avavilable if you have not already made some kind of plans.

I know this probably goes without saying, but document everyday that there is No Contact between son and dad.

I say this because when I went through two custody cases on one of my daughters, it was a document that the judge took a lot of stock in.

My atty had told me to document it as 8-30-09 no contact, 8-31-09 no contact, and so on. Then when there was contact, explain exactly what type, phone, in person, or whatever. And to document how long the contact was.

I hope that you are already do something like this. It really helped me to be able to show the judge a pattern of how little time the dad actually spent with my daughter other than the times that the judge had already said that he could have, (which was only 6 hours every two weeks).

Good luck at your meeting on Tuesday.