Great job GIMA, keep it up! At the same time, don't get your expectations up too high either.
I remember about 3 weeks after I busted my W's A. We were having a meal and she suddenly just said "You know, the grass always looks greener on the other side, until you step there and end up in all the bullsh*t", completely out of the blue. I can't tell you how much that lifted my spirits. Nor of the devastation after to find she was still in WAS mode "in love with OM", for almost a year after that statement. They'll go back and forth till they clear the fog.
I also went through a similar thing as you just before my sitch made big improvements. Almost eeriely similar. The same "people just won't know what they have till they lose it" message.
good stuff
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.