And I was pointing out that (a) it's a comparatively constrained set of us who are talking openly about sex and (b) we all are not a necessarily representative subset of the married/divorced population at large -- for one, we're all a lot more open (within the limits of the term imposed by anonymity) and feelings-sharing than many (most, I would submit) of our fellow Americans.
Boy howdy, you shoulda been on the SSM board during its heyday ....
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