It is that the best you can do SP.

They are not reasons SP, they are events that happened. You probably did a million things like that over the courss eof the marriage

Hmmmme one of mine would be :

Negative , abusive attacks on xHs personality and abilities resulting in the destruction of his self esteem. Hence I brought him to my low self esteem level and sooooooo felt much better about myself.

People dont leave people they love because the wont bring home the big bucks.

Can you go deeper SP