They are not reasons SP, they are events that happened. You probably did a million things like that over the courss eof the marriage
Hmmmme one of mine would be :
Negative , abusive attacks on xHs personality and abilities resulting in the destruction of his self esteem. Hence I brought him to my low self esteem level and sooooooo felt much better about myself.
People dont leave people they love because the wont bring home the big bucks.