Has your W ever lived on her own; and I mean ALONE? No roommate..no BF..no parents? I noticed in my W an unquenchable desire to prove to the world that she could live on her own; not that she has proven that to be true. But it was her desire.
Now she'll get a chance to prove it!
As far as I know, I do not believe that she was ever seriously alone. The year we were engaged, she had her own place; but you know how that goes. But now that I think about it, neither did I; I always had a roomate too. This will be a whole new experience for me as well.