Thank you for your reply Sandi. My mom said the same thing about my efforts as well. She's also praying for a change of heart. Even my FIL thinks my W is nuts about this divorce thing. At the end of the day, if my W doesn't want me...so be it. I'll be fine and I WILL find someone who I can share the rest of my life. My W will regret her decision in time, but it will be too late by then. I'm still relatively young at 38 and have so much to offer.

I'm currently following Sara's and your advice about being careful not to make the situation worse prior to Retrouvaille. I still believe my W is in a confused state of mind. I just hope she stays committed to attending Retrouvaille even though she doesn't seem to want to go.

God gives us exceedingly abundantly more than we can ever need.

Kind Regards,
LFH


ME: 38
W: 35
D2.5 and S5
Married 12 years
Separated (same house, different rooms)
INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009
The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009