Looks like I might soon be LBS...newcomer here

[brownidmom]

Yes, I do believe it is emotional abuse. He withholds all form of conversation except if it is about our 2 sons.

I have to admit that I am the one who usually brings up the R, the past, and tell him that he is wrong about his accusations. He always tells me, "You know what you have to do." Of course, he means that I need to give full disclosure about anything else I've done. I've already done that!

It is seriously driving me crazy that he either believes that I've done something else or that he is making it up to try and catch me in something.

There are times when I truly think I will be better off without H, but there are also times when I just look at him and melt, remembering all the great times when things were different. And of course, there is the fear of hurting the boys.