Cas - just wanted to let you know that I have jumped over to here now as my other thread seemed to be locked out:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828866#Post1828866

WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09