Hold on here...he has not told me he loves me or that he wants me back or that he is sorry. He has made no mention at all of regretting or questioning his decision to leave.
He only acts possessive and contacts me a lot and is starting to ask me out and is complimenting me...
Different, don't you think?
Yes, but as I think about it it, everybody is different. Maybe a bigger ego requires a little bit of validation to get to the next step. He may be looking for a response from you to make him feel safe to move to a next step. May bot be the way you want it to happen but it's possible that it's forward movement.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
