I do want to add that there is no physical abuse, no drugs, etc., Karen.
In fact, H has never even had a drink of alcohol in his life.
Maybe I started my post out wrong by starting at the beginning instead of discussing now and going backwards. I'd really like some ideas, feedback. I want my life back, for it to really be what it appears to be from the outside.
BIM M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11
my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127