Hi Cas - not sure what's happening with you not being able to post to my thread. Will go look ... silly question but you were logged in, were you? I know that it caught me out the other day when I thought that I was but actually was not!

Meanwhile, good luck with returning to work. Just take it easy and don't push yourself. If there's something that you can't do, let your supervisor know.

What are your thoughts in regard your friend thinking that nc is a good option for you now? Are you able to do that - are you ready?

I am on Day 5 of my 'darkness' but it has not raised any response from H yet ... he did not email over the weekend and, although I had asked him last Wednesday to forward a letter (by email) that he had previously written to me as I need it for counselling today, he still has not sent it. I rather think that means he is ashamed of his 'bomb' 'the script' 'his feelings' that were all committed to type face. Either that or he is just in his funk, OR his usual forgetfulness, compounded by his MLC has just plain washed the request away!! 3 good reasons there but all equally frustrating and the same outcome that I don't get what I asked for!


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09