It is counterintuitive but backing off IS about saving the marriage.
I know but I don't fully understand whay it will work. I don't do well implementing concepts that I don't understand. I think that's why I struggled with the advice from some on this board...do this because it works, doesn't work for me.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
