But, I'm telling you, it aint over till it's over (and even then it often isn't over)...
You do what you need to do and know that this will work out. It takes time to get there, I was a flippin' wreck but I have made peace with the fact that we may need to divorce and perhaps one day start over, or not.
Again (I have to reread this all the time)-
“This is a very important lesson. You must never confuse faith that you will prevail in the end — which you can never afford to lose — with the discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.”