#1 would not mean it is over, it would just mean that you are not willing to share your wife and you are cutting her lose to do get what she says she wants. I understand you giving it more time given the part you've played but it may actually turn out to be the best move.
I read that and it is like a knife in my heart. I don't want to lose her.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
