I must say I am SO happy for you and honestly a bit jealous that you H was willing to go to Retro. I also was hoping my H would be open to the 9/18 hartford session (we live in Boston but 9/11 likely not feasible)...but i don't think i can pursue at this point...we've been separated and living apart for nearly 8 months, with very little contact. I've read Stronger posts to your post, and she's also been an inspiration to me. My H has not filed or brought up D without my pressing to 'work on our M'...but I wonder how long he wished this status quo.
There are some similarities in our posts and I'd greatly value your input into my situation "just want my H back" thread. Regardless, I am happy for you that he is open and think it will be a healing experience regardless. I am eager to hear about Orich's and other experiences very soon. If only I'd known about retro sooner - if i knew of it a year ago I know H would have gone...
Good for you for staying so strong! How is your D doing? -hhh