My Intro: Thanks for Reading!

[RedSoxFan]

Again, what are your options? Lay them out clearly.

1) Ask W to stop seeing OM. If she does not have D papers ready. Execute D, move on with my life.

2) Go dark, and underground GAL, 180, minimal contact, try to detach, eventually reconcile or move on.

3) Go white knight, be her friend, support with no pressure, hope OM makes mistake, try to out wait him and hope she eventually agrees to consider reconciliation.

I think I'm currently waffling between 2 and 3.