Dropped the kids off to H this morning. He was friendly but clearly agitated. Mentioned something about my not replying to his texts and emails. I said if he asks me anything or if there is anything that requires a response, I answer. I was in a great mood.
He then texted me that kids mentioned something about an event we went to where "mommy's special friend" was there. I responded LOL...he's in his 60's and he and his wife had invited us...H said he figured but he "had to ask"...did he? I chose to answer him because I am holding firm to not having the kids around anyone I am intimate with and I want that clear and hopefully reciprocated.
And then...we need to get together and talk and it seems that I'm avoiding it. I said "sure. email me."
Then..."You look great by the way," to which I have not responded.
Having a great day, busy, but felt like posting...
I am wondering how much of what I should discuss with him...I am totally ready to deal with D, just in limbo waiting to find out if I will have a chunk of $ or not which makes a big difference. I really need to be clear about what I will and will not discuss at our meeting or if I should even have such a meeting without a third party present. Thoughts?
