Have you ever read my thread on the Newcomers forum? It is titled " Who Is This Stranger Living In My House?"
I recently talked about my H and the Harley. We have a beautiful Ultra Classic Touring Bike that we both made the decision to buy. I loved riding with him on that bike. One of the first things that made me wonder if he was going through MLC was that he said he wanted to ride by himself a lot more. So he could think. The open road and time to think!! Uh Huh! The skank rides with him now.
When you have some time, go to my thread and find out what I recently realized. I can't believe I never thought of it before! It's the footrest realization!
Within the last month, I even came face to face with them on the bike. Coming back from a trip I was hoping he was on alone. I hate that bike now. It's all I can do to keep from pushing that bike over whenever I pull into the garage.
I don't though. It's not the right thing to do. I will be the better person. I will continue to treat him with unconditional love, be his friend, and be the better option that I know I am. I also need to remember that he is not himself right now. Not the one I married.
I put my FAITH in the LORD everyday. I focus on HIM and not the situation. It will turn around. In HIS timing. Until then, I will continue to pray for him.
