WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[confusedinpa]

Just catching up on journaling

She sent an email first thing in the Sat morning claiming she never got the voice mail and just saw the emai. She then called tellingthe boys she never got the call or voicemail message. In my head I was saying cut the crap but my 3 year old told her we were still sleeping and they would talk later and hung up

I sent her an email reply letting her know that we called and left the message and I sent an email since it alerts her cell phone as well. She replied back we need to discuss. I replied about what. She replied the calling thing. I replied back asking her to elaborate on what there was to discuss but she never replied nor called to discuss

It was crappy out so my 3 year old asked about going to chucky cheese so we did. She called while we were there. My 3 year old didn't want to talk to her so my 7 year old talked to her. She asked him what happened with my phone (I don't think she believed me). He told her how we were at beat buy for 3 hours and left with it still not working right

The she asked about picking him up early on Sun and he said he and I still needed to talk about it. Then he said he didn't want to talk anymore and my 3 year old didn't want to talk at all so he hung up

Later in the afternoon she called to ask me to pay a $18 bill, meanwhile I just paid $1100 monthly tuition bill for my 3 year old. I wanted to bitch her out but my 7 year old was listening. I just told her to let me take a look at it

When I hung up, he asked why mommy doesn't pay for any of the bills. I just told him that we're trying to figure it out an he didn't have I worry about it. I told him that if she didn't take care of the bills I would figure our how to pay them.

We had a good time playing video games while my 3 year old was napping

I told him I know it was important to him to have some one on one time with his mom but the time I spend with him and his brother was very important to me as well. I only see them 3 days a week and when school starts it will be 2 days. So I asked if he could try and gave one on one time with his mom on her days. He thought about it for a few minutes and said that he wanted to stay with me on Sun.

When his bother woke up we went for a bike ride at the park and then got home and played basketball and baseball before dinner. We had a good dinner and the boys helped me clean the house and finish the laundry before reading books. Then we watched a video before they went to bed

I spent the evening talking with by friends and family till 2am

This morning my 7 year old asked if mommy was picking them up today. I said yes. He was sad as be said he wanted to spend more time at home

We did play soccer and go minature golfing (just the 3 of us). While my 3 year old was napping my 7 year old kicked my butt in hearts. So if anyone has any pointers I could use them

My friend called to see if I wanted him and his wife to help with the transition again. I asked them to come over just in case but would try it on my own tonite

I'm praying for strength and wisdom to make it through tonite. I still need to send her the email my lawyer suggested. Any more input in that will be helpful