Originally Posted By: NNP1965
This makes me so sad to read, hm. I just want to scream, what is wrong with all these people, your supposed friends should be supporting you!

Have you looked into a Divorce Care group? I am going through it now, it's 14 weeks and tomorrow will be week 4 for me. It is no cost (there is a workbook, but only if you choose to buy one, it's not mandatory).

Maybe something like that would give you some connections with people who understand what you're going through.

I will look for some Divorce Care groups. Couldn't hurt. I just wasn't familiar with them at all.

As for friends--they're busy, they have lives, and mine can be overwhelming. When they are free, they want to relax and not have to deal with how crazy my life is.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012