I just talked to him. Asked him if he had thought my offer over? He said "it is too much". Then I asked him to tell exactly what it is too much. I have given him an excel with broken down 25 categories of expenses that make the total amount. I said which part is too part. His answer was "the total amount". I said if we cant agree you 'll be spending thousands on lawyers and you will derpive your kids from it. How smart is that? He said he doenst care.
We entered a heated discussion. He accuses me of manipulating him. He mentioned my emails with PC. He said I cant acsuse of that but you sure sounded close. I told him I was and asked him if he had read the advice PC gave me back then: give your family the chance, I would never stand in the way. He said he did but that PC was away, if he was closer...?
I asked him why thought we could work this out while she was in the picture. He said she wasnt for the first few months. He said he doesnt care for her. His sole purpose in life right now are his kids. She is out of the picture for good.
He accuses me of my reactions. WHich so far were a few emails and phonecalls. NOTHING else. I havent reacted in any heated way although I wanted to. He has no idea how much all this has hurt me. He shows no compassion. He is angry and says I am making him angry. That I am sly and I backstabb people. I am amazed. His guilt and shame obviously are in the way. I told him I want things to be civil and he needs to take resposnibility of what he has done. He said he wont take anymore accusations from me. NOTHING!!!
We ended the call because my kids wanted something form him. He may call back.
