#66 Looking for Susnhine...

[mishka422]

In some ways the realisation that there was nothing we could have done better does help with the healing.

Nothing we could have done better? I disagree with that as a blanket statement. We could always do better, but if you aren't sure what that better is because your spouse didn't bother to communicate their dissatisfaction to you then it becomes just as much their problem. Is that what you meant naej?

The situation sucks no matter what way you look at it K, I just know that you will come out of this strong and confident after you go through the mourning again.