You said.. "I have a hard time explaining his behavior the last 1,5 years. The time he spent with us, the gifts, the hugs, the kisses, the refusal to give me the divorce at least 4 times, the wanting to come back, the months he spent in and out of this house, the refusal again to divorce... I just dont get it . He was out. He had his girlfriend even if things didnt look good for them, but he wasnt alone, he didnt need me as a crutch, why the h$ll did he want to come back?".. any ideas...
Well, my theory is.. because he wasnt decided. He still loved you, wanted you, but he was caught up in the grip of her.. but, still undecided which way to jump. So they are in limbo and therefore, put you in limbo. So they lie, cheat, manipulate, play for time, dont make a decision.. thats why???
I'm sorry you feel low and angry, its not surprising hey. Sending you hugs, Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
