It took me almost a year and a half to get to the point when I said I could not forgive. You are lucky I guess. I think the affair portion is very difficult to deal with because sometimes just love is not enough. The trust is breached, the honesty gone. Although I do think marriages can recover, it takes two very strong people: one to suck up and make amends in ways that are very diffult, and another to be willing to risk the chance of being heart broken again.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..