(((Julia)))), how was your visit with your brother? A change of scenery is always good. Your 'to do' list looks good. Can you add some pampering activities for yourself (e.g. manicure, facial, shoe shopping, special gourmet dessert)? No need to feel guilty about the chocolate indulgence. Chocolate has many health benefits (www.chocolate.org)!!!!!! laugh. I can't vouch for all of the findings cited on this site but from my previous life as a researcher I DO know that chocolate has some marijuana- and opiate-like effects.......so enjoy!

Also, it's possible that H's holiday with OW may not be as rosy as you imagine. Remember what Ali's BF said about his skiing holiday with OW back around Christmastime? There was a lot of tension between them on that trip.

Nell, you are a very smart woman to recommend chocolate and 'to do' lists!

Cas, I have been following your sitch when I have time. It sounds as though you are mending well. I am hoping that your increased mobility as you recover from surgery is helping your PMA.