Why would he go to a Stosny weekend when he doesn't do anything wrong? When he was telling me everything I do wrong, I said then a MC could help us with that, help with the problems you have with me. Nope.
He just wants to go back to pretending.
S9 had a frog he caught, and he is death to small animals, so I didn't want him to do it. After a few days, I said what's up with the frog? He said he let it go. I agreed that was the best thing.
A week later I find the "cage" it was in, with a dead frog in it. I said S9!! You said you let it go!!
He said...I thought I let it go. I guess I dreamed it.
I got very upset and angry with him. I said you did NOT dream it, you lied. He cried, he hid in his room, he did all sorts of drama, but he would NOT admit that he lied about that frog. He kept insisting that he dreamed it. I told him he was in far worse trouble for pretending he didn't lie, than for lying. I told him he HAD TO STOP PRETENDING.
I grounded him until he would admit it. It took him until the NEXT DAY to admit he knew he didn't let the frog go.
