I am no match for someone who doesn't want to deal in reality.
It shouldn't even be a 'match'. You are supposed to be two people who love each other trying to understand the other. I know it is so hard to do, but try not to get sucked in to nonsensical 'discussions' that go nowhere. It's just a big energy sucker.
Originally Posted By: breakaway
Of course, he refuses MC. I asked him what he was afraid of, he said how do you know the counselor isn't a lunatic.
I have to agree that there are a lot of very bad counselors out there, as well as some very good ones of course. Maybe he would do the next Stosny weekend?
Maybe it's time to ask for a separation. You need a break, breakaway.
