Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Thinker]

Having a very surreal day.

Mrs. Thinker has suddenly decided that she is interested in moving here to MIL's city, looked up a bunch of houses on line, and today we are out as a family looking at some of them.

First, let me say that I am not opposed to the idea. The area is nice, the houses are nice, the people are friendly, the cost of living is low, the taxes are low - and could more easily work in my current job than from where we live now. All in all it would be a great way to upgrade our standard of living while reducing our costs. In fact, I have suggested this move in the past.

But NOW???

I am going along with the house hunting on the theory that "it never hurts to look", but I'm not making any long term decisions with our M in it's current state (or even now in the state it was in 2 years ago)

I don't want to uproot and move only to get D'd.

Last night I asked her how serious she was about moving, and said "we need to decide if we want to be married or not before we can think about where we want to live.

But today, I am just going along for the ride and looking at houses.