I forgot to add that he gets S9 crying and tells him to find me (in the house) and tell mommy not to leave. Then he told S12 to tell me that he's a great guy and loves me and just wants me to love him.
How inappropriate is that?
I talked to the children and told them they didn't need to worry about the argument (we were out for most of it and the last of it was in the bedroom...I could have gone over to a friend's house without them freaking out about it, he MADE them freak out about it.)