Just because you aren't in tune with your own body is not his fault.
I don't usually get irked here but you've got a serious superiority issue. Check out how the women who aren't "in tune" with their bodies can a) orgasm in about 30 seconds on their own and b) orgasm with another man or H in a new dynamic.
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"Oh, I could NEVER say those things to my beloved!"
I have never spoken with a single women who would say this. I don't know women who are prude or out of touch with their bodies or who wont say touch me here or there. I know women who have a dynamic with their H's and a lifestyle that puts sex and intimacy at the bottom of the list and the H's have a hell of a lot to do with the intimacy loss...of course they can still work their equipment but so much is missing.
And of course planning a date with sex as a forgone conclusion is fun in one way, but living with someone and juggling busy schedules requires some creativity and intuition and spontaneity unless sex is only to be limited to when one can get a baby-sitter.
I don't see many here who are hung up on sex. Most of us are being very honest and candid and unabashed in our conversation.
Mrs. SP did not need SP to touch her somewhere else...the dynamic of the R was scr*wed up. Intimacy is not a shallow issue for most women.
