S4H, I had to make that decision. It sucked. The whole thought process sucked. I was crying for a month over the decision I was about to take. But I did anyway. I know what you are afraid of. But you will cross that bridge then. I believe, after my and of friends' recent experiences, that if the WAS, is honest and really means it, you will find it in your heart to "go back". Unless of course it takes her a long long time to reach to that. I suggest you now take it day by day. In the meantime, just make sure you are the man she will hate leaving the day she actually walks out the door. You have the tools, use them. K
