I am no match for someone who doesn't want to deal in reality.

He now refuses to take any responsibility for anything that's wrong or any arguments that happen. He has labeled me crazy, told me he's tried to support me through all my "depressive episodes and mood swings," (I started laughing), blamed me for every single thing that happens and for us even arguing ever in the first place. Jekyll and Hyde accusing me of mood swings.

Keeps telling the kids he's done NOTHING wrong and doesn't know why I get upset with him. (They looked at him like he's lost his mind.)

Of course, he refuses MC. I asked him what he was afraid of, he said how do you know the counselor isn't a lunatic.

He did say that I need counseling. I guess it doesn't matter if I go to a counselor that's a lunatic.

We have talked in circles for two days. I wanted to go to a friend's last night and he took all the car keys so I couldn't take one of "his" cars.

This morning I made an attempt at a truce to get through the day, and his response was for me to let him know when I was in the mood for sex.


Me-42,H-41,M-14
S-12,9


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