Yes, he is still at home. I don't know if I could even manage more of a big 'to-do' if he wanted it. He has alienated all of our friends and his family, to the point that they are barely speaking to each other. Of course, its all everyone else's fault, not his!

I guess I will take your advice and see if he even knows what he wants to do. I suspect in typical MLC fashion he will just say "I don't know" because he seems at the point where he can't make any kind of decision.


Me - 38
Husband - 40 MLC!
Together 12 years
Married 11 years
Still the love of my life
Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair

H started D paperwork 5/13/10