Spoke to close friend who was catching up on my past week. I told her I argued with H (my post #1820061 - Mon Aug 17 2009 10:39 AM) at time in laws were staying. Friend was interested that H hadn't had ow visit inlaws for 10 days and then following our argument and s's refusal to help with move ow appears for the move and for dinner with inlaws next day. In my argument with H he told me he was 'in a relationship' so he had no time for me. My friend thinks H then had to prove a point to me about his relationship and that was why ow was then invited to help move and to have dinner. Interesting perspective. She also thinks nc is perfect now.
