Mmm - I feared this. You were riding to high and now the crash of the wave, I'm afraid.
First job, look after YOU. With your recent medical history, you should not be pushing it. You already know that so listen up.
So, H stayed at the townhouse too?? Just as I suspected, so all may not be lost DO NOT unpack H's boxes - just as you were advised not to pack his 'dirty laundry' then let him unpack it too. Don't worry about being upbeat right now - he will see that you are sick and would not expect it - who would? Hopefully he will help with some stuff whilst you are 'out of action' but don't count on it.
Definitely have that early night (hopefully you are already in bed and not reading this until tomorrow) and see how you go. If you need a few days from work, take them.
Check in and let us know how you are going though, OK?? I know that you have the laptop right now so that should be fairly easy - just no beating yourself up about DB'ing ....
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
DO NOT unpack H's boxes - just as you were advised not to pack his 'dirty laundry' then let him unpack it too. Don't worry about being upbeat right now - he will see that you are sick and would not expect it - who would? Hopefully he will help with some stuff whilst you are 'out of action' but don't count on it. 
