So my husband is about 1.5 years into his MLC. I am trying to lovingly distance while he goes through his craziness. My question is that his big 40th birthday (which I think was a trigger for all of this) is fast approaching in two weeks. Do I try to make it a non-event? A big celebration? Just a card? I found a beautiful card that has a nice sentiment- one of those "I am so glad you're my husband" type cards. Would that be seen as pursuing? or putting pressure on him? I find it so hard to walk the tightrope between "I love you and want the marriage to work" and giving him space while he works his craziness out. Any suggestions? Thank you.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
